The Unexpected Podcast

Episode 24 - The Rant Episode, Part 1

By implication, the title of this week's episode indicates we might rant again on the next episode, but that remains to be seen.
This week's episode was recorded at the end of an awful day, but it is sometimes during the dreadful days that we grow the most. And sometimes, we just rant a lot, too.

Episode 23 - What Was I Thinking?

Have you ever looked back on a previous decision and asked yourself, "What in the world was I thinking?" We sure have. And you probably have, too.
Quotes from this episode:
"After the funeral, when he saw her preparing to go away, he was seized with an unreasoning dread of being left alone on the farm; and before he knew what he was doing he had asked her to stay there with him. He had often thought since that it would not have happened if his mother had died in spring instead of winter." - from Ethan Frome by Edith Wharton
"There is a way which seems right to a man, but its end is the way of death." - Proverbs 16:25
"Enthusiasm without knowledge is no good; haste makes mistakes. " - Proverbs 19:2

Episode 22 - Dealing with Difficult People

The title of this week's episode is self-explanatory, but please consider our acknowledgment that we can also be difficult. Solutions to relationship challenges are sometimes simple but often very complex.

Episode 21 - Slip Sliding Away

Humans tend to fall into extremes, which is a surefire way to avoid having to think for themselves.
Quotes from the show: "There are two ways to slide easily through life; to believe everything or to doubt everything. Both ways save us from thinking" - Alfred Korzybski
“But solid food belongs to those who are of full age, that is, those who by reason of use have their senses exercised to discern both good and evil.” - Hebrews 5:14 NKJV
“The Lord brings the counsel of the nations to nothing; He makes the plans of the peoples of no effect.” -Psalms 33:10 NKJV

Episode 20 - One Size Does NOT Fit All

In this week's episode, we discuss the human tendency to impose one's values onto others and how this approach to life is both unproductive and potentially harmful. While certain standards do apply to all, each of us must determine the best pathway to living out God's design for our own lives.
"Do you have faith? Have it to yourself before God. Happy is he who does not condemn himself in what he approves." Romans 14:22

Episode 19 - Do You Need a Tune-up?

We all get a little rusty in certain areas of our lives. There are times when we aren't firing on all cylinders. Depletion can happen to not only our minds and bodies but also our spirits. The good news is that there are ways to replenish our inner life.

Episode 18 - Aging Well

We all have one thing in common: We are all getting older. Although we don't always enjoy the effects of aging, science shows that having an aging brain actually has its benefits. Plus, we can lean on God's promises to sustain us in old age.
"He will renew your life and sustain you in your old age." Ruth 4:15
"Even to your old age and gray hairs, I am he who will sustain you. I have made you and I will carry you; I will sustain you and I will rescue you." Isaiah 46:4
"Moses was 120 years old when he died, yet his eyesight was clear, and he was as strong as ever." Deuteronomy 34:7

Episode 17 - Arlie Tagayuna

As a sociology professor, Dr. Arlie Tagayuna seeks to not only understand the current culture but also desires to promote positive change and restoration. Throughout the years we've known him, we can attest that he demonstrates Christ-like qualities in his kindness and generosity towards those around him. Dr. T., as he is known by some, is well-traveled and possesses a wealth of experience with people from various cultures and walks of life. We are sure you will enjoy this episode.

Episode 16 - The Lens of Memory

How accurate are our memories? What variables affect our perception of past events? Do we tend to let negative memories overshadow the good ones?
Perhaps the pathway to wholeness and maturity requires a proper assessment of our most prominent recollections.

Episode 15 - Don't Get Bitten by the Root of Bitterness

You've probably had your share of opportunities to let life make you bitter. Haven't we all? Let's talk about it.
Quotes and verses: "Never trust your tongue when your heart is bitter." - Samuel Johnson
"Guard your heart above all else, for it determines the course of your life." Proverbs 4:23
"Get rid of all bitterness, rage, malice, anger, harsh words, and slander, as well as all types of evil behavior. Instead, be kind to each other, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, just as God through Christ has forgiven you." Ephesians 4:31-32